Friday, November 12, 2010

Excelling at What You Do

I received the below article from my wonderfully smart cousin Susan about a year ago. As I was looking through my desk drawer I found a copy I had printed to always keep as a reminder of the work we do. I think this article is a fantastic piece that should be shared with families, co workers, and any one who wants to wants to excel.  Thank you Susan for sharing and enjoy!

Excelling at What You Do

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as though you were working for the Lord and not for people” (Colossians 3:23 TEV).

During the 2008 Summer Olympics, Michael Phelps gave us an extraordinary display of the pursuit of excellence. But the truth is every athlete in the Olympics pursues excellence as peak performers in their categories of competition.

The Bible identifies five characteristics of people who excel at what they do.

1. People who excel work with enthusiasm. Regardless of whether the job is big or small, give it your best. Great performers give their best effort, no matter the size of the audience: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as though you were working for the Lord and not for people” (Colossians 3:23 TEV).

2. People who excel sharpen their skills. They never stop developing, growing, learning, and improving: “If your ax is dull and you don’t sharpen it, you have to work harder to use it. It is smarter to plan ahead” (Ecclesiastes 10:10 TEV). It takes more than desire to excel, it takes skill! Remember, you’re never wasting time when you’re sharpening your “ax.”

3. People who excel keep their word. They are reliable. They can be counted on to do what they say they’ll do. So they excel because people of integrity are rare in our society: “Everyone talks about how loyal and faithful he is, but just try to find someone who really is!” (Proverbs 20:6 TEV).

4. People who excel maintain a positive attitude. Even under pressure, or change, or unrealistic demands, they don’t allow themselves to become negative: “Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life . . .” (Philippians 2:14–16 NIV). And remember: “If your boss is angry at you, don’t quit! A quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes” (Ecclesiastes 10:4 NLT).

5. People who excel do more than is expected. This is a secret that every successful person has discovered. You’ll never excel by only doing what is required. Jesus said, “If someone takes unfair advantage of you, use the occasion to practice the servant life. No more tit-for-tat stuff. Live generously” (Matthew 5:40–42 MSG).

The Broadway lyricist Oscar Hammerstein once told the story of seeing the top of the Statue of Liberty from a helicopter. He was impressed because of the incredible detail the artist had sculpted on an area that no one was expected to see. In fact, the Statue of Liberty was completed with no idea that man would someday be able to fly over the statue!

 When you’re tempted to cut corners, thinking, “No one will ever know,” remember God is looking down and sees everything you do. Give him your best this week!

Rick Warren










Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Almost 1 Year Old!

I don't even know where to begin. These last few months have been busy, busy, busy. Abby will be one year old in 29 days. When someone tells you that time flies when you have babies that is an understatement, when you hear you love them more and more as each day passes that it is an understatement! She is our HEART : ) It is hard to believe that she has grown into this little person with ideas and emotions.  I love watching every milestone and look forward to the next year; even though secretly I want her to say small for ever and ever! She is gaining her balance and taking steps.She can bend down pick something up and stand back up on her own! It won't be long till she is strolling all over the house on her own 2 feet! She learned to say UHHH-OHHH and it is possibly the cutest sound I have ever heard. Abby calls every animal DOG and she wakes up saying DOG looking for Rufus and Shelbs. Awww I will miss these days but right now I am soaking up every moment, smile, hug, open mouth kiss I can get! 

A few weeks ago we went and our dear friend Libby took Abby's 1 year pictures. We took them at Water's Crossing in Allen. They have a great little area with a creek and some ducks! The pictures turned out great despite the fact it was over a 100 degrees and Abigail's hair was plastered to her forehead from sweat. Abby is very photogenic and showed her few teeth in almost every picture. I do believe my favorite part of her pictures (other than Abby) was her Madonna shirt. She is a girl with great taste just like her momma! Thank you Libby you did great work and we have had so many compliments.



We have officially put the house on the market. We are excited to move a little farther north so Abigail can attend a smaller school. Chad and I just like the home town feel that we are used to from growing up in a smaller town. I just hope I don't have withdrawals from my daily Starbucks : ) Wish us luck in our adventure and for a quick sale!

XOXO, 

Jackie 





Sunday, June 27, 2010

7 Years.....

7 years ago today I lost my best friend.... Karra and I we met in the 2nd grade and quickly became inseparable. We were together so much that our families became friends. We rode bikes, horses, played with our barbies, in the creek, tried smoking our 1st cigarette together which ended with us catching the bathroom trash on fire, and anything else imaginable. We spent Christmas, numerous birthdays (since they were only a day apart) and any other adventure/holiday a person could think of  together until she moved in the 6th grade. After Karra moved we weren't able to spend as much time together but we were still as close as the day we met. When we were together it was like we didn't skip a beat. She was an amazing person with a great spirit and huge heart. I am lucky to have had such an amazing friend. 7 years ago she was called to heaven to fill her role as an angel, a angel that pushes the limits I am sure. There are moments that I feel like I am missing out because my best friend isn't here to celebrate my marriage or able to meet Abigail but then I think of how lucky I am to have had such a wonderful person in my life. I had a friendship that some people never get the chance to experience and for that I am truly a very lucky person.I hope everyone takes a moment in their day to tell those who mean the most to them,  family or friends,  that you love them!

"Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same."-- Anonymous


Thursday, May 20, 2010

Fall Down Go Boom!

So I have to admit it.... I am an awful mama! Abby has started throwing major fits when it gets time to go to sleep, and today during one of those fit throwing moments she fell out of the recliner and hit her head. She officially has her 1st bump : ( I have never felt so bad in my life. I just let her fall out of my lap into the floor. I feel ashamed even talking about it but I think that is part of being a mom. No mom is perfect but after she fell in the floor I rushed over, picked her up, kissed her face, and hugged her so tight. I guess that is all we can do when our babies fall down and go boom....

Back to this fit throwing... Please give me suggestions! I have tried holding her to calm her down, putting her in the floor to let her throw the fit, or laying her in bed all while none seem to make her calm down and stop crying. One of these days she will hate that she didn't enjoy her naps more but in the meantime we currently hate nap time.

While I am on my favorite subject Abigail I figure I will mention she has to many nicknames. I sometimes wonder she will be confused om what her real name is! Just a few of the names we call her ..... Abby, Abs, Abs Magabs, Toot, Monster, Munchkin, Pumkin, Love, Lovebug and any combination of the above. Funny conversation about her nickname... Gotta love what kids say. Caiden (our nephew): "Aunt Jackie what's this big ball for?", Me: "It's an exercise ball to exercise your abs" Caiden: "But she is to small to exercise".   I just laughed and responded "You are correct".

Directly behind Abigail my next favorite thing is the Ellen DeGeneres's Show.. Okay that is exaggerating but I do truly love her show. It is funny, entertaining, and uplifting. Last week she showed the most amazing 12 year old boy who covered "Paparazzi" by Lady Gaga. This kid is simply amazing. Watch and enjoy!


This previous weekend was very exciting and exhausting. I will start with exhausting... 4 trips to Lowe's, entire Saturday spent working outside, 5 people helping, and a million trips from the front yard to the back we are about 95% finished with our patio. It looks fantastic and I really think it will improve our backyard experience. We still have a few cosmetic items and decorating to do but we are defiantly making progress. While I am showing pictures of the patio I might as well show off our flowers and the rest of the backyard. You are all welcome to come and have drink on our new patio! I just might do that tonight! Thanks Mom and Dad for coming down and helping with the Patio. We couldn't have done it without you.



Now I know everyone is more excited to find out what was so exciting this weekend?!?! Well I am sorry I can't tell you now because I think there are a few more people who have a surprise in store for them! It was a great surprise and thankful for the visit!

I would like to announce that I am having another nephew in October! Boys, boys, boys everywhere! This will be nephew number 5! I will not be able to afford Christmas next year with all these babies and kids. I am currently taking donations! Congrats Sis and Travis! And please pick a name other then Archie for this baby : )

Those are our latest adventure! Or all that I can remember anyways....
Love,
Jackie

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Run...Run...Run

It is crazy how busy we have been over the last few weeks. We have started a few new projects, have a growing little girl, and we are loving this weather. I made the comment the other day how much I LOVE Texas! What more could a person as for then Texas Music and this wonderful Patio weather! Life is Great!

Project #1

Our Patio....

So we decided that the person living here before us wanted to live in a jungle! Our yard it covered with shrubs, trees, and plants. It is so much to maintain and takes up so much space. So we took on the project of tearing out some trees/shrubs by the house and extending our patio. This upcoming weekend my parents are planning to come and assist us in laying the patio. Here are some pictures of the progress so far....





 



We are really hoping that in a year when we decide to sell our house our new patio will be a selling point. Wish us luck that it turns out as planned and that Chad and I don't get divorced in the process : )

2nd Project

Running a 5 K......

At the beginning of the year I set a few goals for myself, and 1 happened to be running a 5K. My dearest Amanda has started running 5Ks with her family, and my boss runs them on a regular basis. So a few weeks ago Amanda emailed (We email during the day instead of text) and asked me if I wanted to run the Howe Founder's Day 5K. I said "yes" with a little hesitation since I only had 3 weeks to train. I went from setting on the couch to running almost everyday. It was something I wanted to do just need the motivation. My goal was to run it in under 40 minutes.... I ran it in 30:02 minutes and received 3rd place for my age group. It was the greatest feeling when I rounded the last curve and looked up at the clock and it said 30 minutes. It was honestly one of the best ways to start the day! Amanda had to show me up and ran it in 28:12, but this is defiantly something I will start doing on a regular basis. While we were there I saw some pretty inspirational people... a 72 year old lady that finished the run and a guy who ran it in 15 minutes. It was simply amazing to see both!



Sporting our Medals



Our Greatest Project

Abigail

She is just growing, growing, and growing... Abby turned 8 months yesterday. I can't believe in 4 months we will be celebrating her 1st birthday. I have already started thinking of party themes... Currently a Cupcake Theme is winning. She started pulling up on everything. It was crazy one day she figured it out and the next she was pulling up everywhere.




My 1st Mother's Day has been fantastic. I received a beautiful necklace from Chad and Abigail! It has 2 parts for Abby and I, so when she gets older we will give her the other half to wear. I hope everyone had a fantastic Mother's Day and as Stephanie quoted on Facebook "To the world you are somebody, BUT to somebody (your kids) you are the world!"

XOXOXO!

Jackie

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Easter!

In the last two weeks so much has happened! You know the quote "be careful what you wish for..." Well Chad and I are eating our words. We couldn't wait for the day for Abs to crawl and well she is crawling all over the place. She loves the entertainment center, the puppies, and the puppies’ toys! I believe it is a baby’s intuition to know what is off limits and go straight for it! Watching her learn is simply amazing, you can see it in her eyes the excitement when she figures something out. It melts our heart. She also is starting to teeth; her 1st little tooth is starting to poke through. Awww she is getting so big.


Our Easter holiday started last weekend going to my parent’s. My Aunt Linda and Uncle Bob are visiting for CO, it was great to see them both doing so well. My sister and I have finally talked our parents into moving to Texas. They have lived in the same little town for many of years and made numerous friends, but decided it was time to be closer to the kids and grandkids. We are both ecstatic to have our parents around more often, not to mention the convenience of having them around with kids!

Saturday we spent the day at Granny's with Mimi and Paps. Abby wore a beautiful little dress until we discovered she couldn't crawl because her knee kept getting caught in the dress, so then she ran around in just a diaper. I had this image when I had Abby that she would wear beautiful dresses and big bows everyday…. Little did I know she had her own plan? (Her plan is way better than I ever imagined) We had great food and conversation. Our dearest Amanda came over Saturday night for a visit. As always we had some laughs, a few beers, and did a little gossiping.


Easter day…. It was a great day with the Allison, Fallon, and Garcia family. As always Pepaw and Mimi Marty made a feast big enough for an army. It is impossible to leave their house hungry! Following dinner we had a girls vs boys game of touch football. Apparently touch football means Melody getting hit in the nose twice, Wendy almost breaking a jaw and spending more time on the ground then on her feet, and Chad almost having an asthma attack. Overall it was a fun, friendly game! The evening was followed by watching the kids hunt Easter eggs. It was a great 1st Easter with Abigail.

I hope everyone had a great Easter and loves this weather. This is the best time of the year in Texas. We are going to Austin this weekend for Ryan wedding. I hope Chad and I find time to set on a patio and enjoy a margarita.

Thanks for reading….

Hug and Kisses,

Jackie

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Welcome

Hello Friends and Family,

I am very anxious to start blogging about the Allison Family. I wake up everyday and Abigail starts doing something new. Sometimes I feel like life is flying by and I worry I will not be able to share these memories in years to come.

Currently Chad and Abigail are both sick. Abigail has a cold and Chad has an upper respiratory infection. This weekend has been crazy with it snowing in March, Abby fussy, and Chad trying to get well. It is Sunday and everyone seems to be getting better. So thankful!

Abigail will be crawling any day now. She currently is getting up on all 4's and rocking back and forth. We are just anxiously waiting for the big moment! She is in love with Rufus and Shelby. They are so fantastic with her, they allow her to pull their ears and hair. It is great to see the puppies doing so great with her. In a couple of years she will be their biggest fan.


I just recently started a new career path and I am loving it. I work for a company (Texas Health Benefits) that assists small to medium size business with health benefits and 401ks. I am loving it! It is a product I understand, believe is necessary for all families, and allows me the flexibility in my schedule I have always dreamed of. This past week I had to make a trip to Austin to visit one of our larger clients. It was a great meeting and followed up by a great night on 6th street. Myrna (my boss) and I enjoyed SXSW. Austin is an amazing city! The only thing missing was my hubby. I hated being gone for the night but I was able to enjoy the next day at home with Abigail while I worked. The benefits of working from home... I get more family time!

Chad is still working with FedEx and working towards a promotion. Due to the economy Chad's industry has struggled but there seems to be some light at the end of the tunnel. He has received several promising words of encouragement from his supervisor, so he keeps trucking! (Pun Intended since he works in the freight industry). He is a hard worker and great at his job. I have no doubts in Chad.

And finally the biggest news of the week! My sister and Travis are expecting another addition to their already large, amazing family. She is due in October which will mean Abigail will have a cousin 3 months older and 13 months younger. In a few years the tea party table will be full. Congratulations sis and Travis. We can't wait to meet the new baby. We love you all (Angie, Travis, Joe, Jay, Lilly Bug, and Olivia)

I hope everyone enjoys reading about our family as much as I love being a part of this family.



Love,

Jackie